This was a challenging episode for me as I describe living a secret life of shame and sexual anorexia in marriage. I had experienced sexuality that was unwanted and confusing when I was young. I had feelings of arousal, fear, and shame like Jon described on I Feel Uncomfortable Talking About Sex that I dealt […]
Sexuality is our essence, and a topic we are very passionate about after years of discovering how to heal our own. On our relationship podcast, we share stories about developing a healthy relationship, healthy sexuality, loving communication, and connection. Sometimes when we talk about sex, Jema wants to run away, but she has found her brave and is learning to love her blushing cheeks.
I am going to be honest, I feel uncomfortable talking about sex. Sex was not really a topic we had practice talking about with anyone. While Jon was caught up in a cycle of abstinence and binging, I was in my own cycle of repression and avoiding. Jon’s work in therapy was to begin talking […]
We have had quite the journey from having separate sex lives to learning to talk about sex. At the beginning of our relationship, we kept our sexuality to ourselves and crossed paths to have sex. We didn’t discuss it or really share with one another our inner desires. I checked it off like another chore from […]